Point a finger and three more points at you!

Z-Rockers

There comes a time in your life when you will eventually stop pointing fingers and take responsibility for all your actions, whether they be good or bad. No one wants to hear this story but it needs to be told. An old friend e-mailed me and told me that he was very un happy and that he just wanted out of the situation he was in. He was unsatisfied with his job, his living arrangements, and just life in general. He and I had been friends since Middle school, and some how we ended up in the same college together taking the same classes. Our friendship sort of pick-up where it had left off. It was more like a brother, sister friendship. Every one said a boy and girl can't just be friends there is always more there. But, there never was with he and I, we were TRULY friends who fought, and laughed, and made fun of each other. Now this friend never was the most mature person, (sorry) he was just happy skateboarding and hanging out with friends. I on the other hand was super old for my age (which isn't a good thing) I mean I never missed a day of college, I always was home on the weekends, I never partied and I had some major goals set. I just knew what I wanted and I didnt think I had time for fun (which is a whole other story).

It was odd how he and I were friends we were like night and day, oil and water, ying and yang, well you get my point we were total opposites. After graduation I went on to work here at Z-Rock 107.5 and I got what I wanted. I didn't really know what happened to my good ole buddy. Until this morning when he e-mailed me, he said he was tired of his situation and he was going to (rather then wallow in self pity) change things. He was ready to take responsibility and realize that he is where he is cause he chose to be and now he was choosing to change it. I felt so proud, kind of like the mother who finally see's her son do his own laundry.

I learned something to (while reading his e-mail) I have learned to just point the finger at myself, no one at all is to blame for anything that happens to me but me. If I do something stupid, well guess what? I was the idiot who did it. My point is...... you will some day realize that your mom was right all along, never point a finger cause you will have 3 more pointing back at you............

Until Next time, Be Safe, Have fun, Listen to Z-Rock, Love ya

God Bless
-Tia Maria